Knowing when to let go

Today I was thinking what is life? Our mother gives us life when we are born. She carries us in her womb for 9 months keeping us warm and protected and sharing a bond with us like no one else. Then at the moment of birth we become a part of a bigger plan to be shared with the outside world. A world that we do not know and they do not know us. Life is a growing process from that time until we die. A baby learns to communicate their needs by crying when they are hungry or wet or ill. They are comforted by their mother and father and kept secured. Then right in front of our eyes they start walking and talking.

Then as parents we want what is best for them or do we? The one thing as a parent that I have found that makes being a parent the hardest is to know when to back off and let them be their selves. We as parents cuddle and catch them to keep them from falling. I know the hard part is let them fall and to know when to be there to pick them up.This to me has been the hardest part of life knowing when to let go.

The Years Keep Rolling (Original Song) - Video Collaboration with Enyarwen

I Know That I Am Getting Older

 I was talking with a friend of mine, we have been friends for at least 40 years. Somehow the conversation turned to we were getting old. I know I am getting older but I hate it when people remind me of that fact. I know my body has changed and I am developing the signs of getting older but I hate being remind of it. I have live my life by one of my blessed Mothers rules and that is your only as old as you want to think you are and the more you worry about getting old the faster it will happen to you. My body might have changed some and believe you I know it when I look into the mirror, but I am still that same young girl locked up into this old woman's body. I still enjoy life I just do things a little slower now. So when you see an older person show them respect and always be polite when they talk to you. After all they have the right to say what they think, because they have earn that right. They have live longer than you and learn about life. This to me is precious and is to be cherished because they are the greatest teachers of life.

Hangout - Sep 10, 2012 3:55:43 PM (playlist)

I have been a little depressed today the weather has changed and we went from 80 degrees to 60's . I do not understand how people can come into our country from another one and gain our freedoms that they did not have in their own. I do not understand it when they turn around and kill our American citizens for no good reason. I do not want to judge everyone that comes here because I know they are a lot of wonderful people that come to our country and America is the land of immigrants hell most of us came from one country or another. I am an American through and through how about you?

Hello today how are you doing? M y heart is sadden and breaking to think that they are young people in this world that are so evil and mean that they would hurt and kill small children and anyone else that would get in there way. The sad part about it is they have hurt their own selves more than they have the American people. One thing I can say in time of trouble or sorrow we as a country pull together.

I also want to extended my heart felt compassion for the people of West Texas. I really could not imagine what you have been through and are going through without your homes. Our state almost had a similar thing happen but it was a gas line and I am so thankful no one got hurt. I wish it had been the same for all of you. My heart felt love and prayers go out to all the victims and their families God Bless You all and God please Bless Our Beautiful Country the USA.

Conway - Honky Tonk Girl

The Path We Walk

Sometimes I wonder why bad things happen to good people? I know that the good Lord has a plan for us all
and we have to walk our own paths, but sometimes it seems unfair. I see bad people doing the wrong things and prospering from it. I also believe if you do wrong it will come back to you. I know some who pretend to be God's people but they do not live by his words. They like to put on a show. The church house is not going to take them to heaven. I believe it is what is in y our heart and the action you take will get you there. I do not believe in gossip it is a sure way of going to hell. I do believe in loving and caring for others. I think when we are born we are given the knowledge and a conscience of right and wrong. I feel it is up to each one of us to choose our path we walk on. Some choose the right way and others walk on a down trodden path that leads to no good. I believe no matter how bad your life has been you can change it if you want to. I feel we are given a chance and it is up to you and me to make the world better.

Lucky Me

My wonderful daughter call just to chat with me. She lives 5 hours away so we do a lot of communicating on the phone. I thank God for her every day. He loan me one of his beautiful angels. I realize just how fortunate I am and how blessed. I just got back home from a vacation with her and her wonderful husband and children we had a great time. Even though my daughter has had her trails and worries herself she has a loving and caring heart. I like to think she got a little bit of it from me. Today as we were talking about what had happen in Boston you could hear the tears in both of our voices. When something as evil and bad like this happens to your follow Americans it really can make you count your blessing. My daughter told me something about a friend today and I was so proud of her because of her having so much compassion, I having a saying for what she told me it is having a heart. I know the person or people that did this awful thing does not have a soul or a heart. If you have children or family always try and let them know you love and care about them and no matter what you will be there if they need you. Today we may be blessed but tonight we may close our eyes and may not see tomorrow's light so let us grow from our mistakes and not make them twice. 

Hello everyone My name is Judith Turner. I want to do this blog so I can get to know you better and you
can get to know me.  I am an American citizen, who is very proud of our country and the believes we stand
for. I was born in a small town called Logan, WV. and was raised on a small farm by two wonderful parents who love all five of their children. My father was a coal miner and became disable and die at 42 years old.            
I have two grown children and five grandchildren and yes I also have two great grandchildren.

     My thoughts are more on them today than any other day because of the bombing of our wonderful and old city of Boston and our people of that city. Who is to say the next one will not be in our home state or capital. The heart break I fill for all the victims is real I know if something this evil and hideous would happen to my family I would lose it and go off the deep in. We are all Americans and when you hurt one of us you hurt all of us. I am so proud of our people and the resiliency that we have to move forward even though we have been put into a state of emergency all over our country we will survive because that is what our country was found on.